Stop, Look and Listen

Are your kids not listening to a word you say?  Would you love to have them stop and really listen when you talk?

Well, instead of talking more and more or louder and louder, try something different.  Stop and really listen to them.  I know, I know…you thought this was about getting them to listen to you.  And it is!

If you’re constantly distracted, staring at the computer, watching TV, or texting on your phone when your kids are talking, you’re teaching them exactly how NOT to listen.

One of the secrets to getting your kids to listen is to really listen to them.  By giving your kids your undivided attention when they are talking, you’ll be teaching them how to listen effectively.  AND once kids feel heard they’ll be more eager to hear what you have to say.

This week in one conversation, instead of trying to get your kids to listen to you, stop and really listen to them.  You’ll be surprised by what happens!  The more you listen to your kids, the more they’ll listen to you!

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